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A collection of observations along the way.
Values Part Two: Tension
In tough moments, what's your default behaviour?
May 26, 20242 min read
Values Part One: Searching
We can learn a lot about ourselves through the stories we tell about others.
May 19, 20242 min read
Stories vs. Truths
You experience one thing and you share another thing. The difference matters.
May 12, 20243 min read
Expectation vs. Invitation
Having expectations creates room for disappointment, so why do we keep setting them?
May 5, 20241 min read
Pain and Progress
A short riff on what it takes to play some sweet tunes.
Apr 28, 20241 min read
Creating Unexpected Delight
My wife drinks coffee. I drink tea. Our Airbnb didn't have any of either.
Apr 21, 20243 min read
Malli
This is a post about a word, and its implications for how we view strangers.
Apr 14, 20243 min read
Taste vs. Quality
If you're seeking feedback on your work, make sure to avoid this trap.
Apr 7, 20242 min read
What is Water?
A short riff on a big error, inspired by David Foster Wallace's famous speech.
Mar 31, 20242 min read
Always be an Imposter
A short post about something that should stick around for longer.
Mar 24, 20242 min read
Tools
Riding bikes, cooking meals, and what we should learn by watching experts in action.
Mar 17, 20242 min read
The Trivia Effect
We don't listen to the radio the same way anymore.
Mar 10, 20243 min read
The Natural Thing
With six minutes to go on the clock, I had an identity crisis.
Mar 3, 20245 min read
Biological Time
A short reflection on what surrounds us and what's within us.
Feb 25, 20242 min read
The Price of Umbrellas
Let's talk about the human thing to do.
Feb 18, 20242 min read
The Thermostat and the Furnace
It was colder than it should have been when we walked into the house.
Feb 11, 20242 min read
Old Friends
A short reflection on differences and similarities.
Feb 4, 20241 min read
Up and Down
A short look at what we should compare to.
Jan 28, 20242 min read
The Voices in our Heads Part Two: The Imposter and the Critic
A look at who shows up when we're new to something, and who shows up when we've made a mistake.
Jan 21, 20242 min read
The Voices in our Heads Part One: FOPO
You want to do something but you aren't sure how it will "look." Let's explore.
Jan 14, 20242 min read
This blog is written by me, Shaminda (Shum) Attygalle. It is a collection of observations on mental models, change, work, and relationships. I publish a new post every Sunday. If you're looking to connect with me directly, feel free to send me an email anytime, or connect via LinkedIn.
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